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When Children Are Caught in the Crossfire: Understanding and Addressing
When children manipulate situations in separated homes, it’s often a sign of deeper emotional struggles....
Read MoreThe Cost of not consulting the other parent about children’s
The Family Court ruled that Ms. Horton was in contempt of court for not consulting...
Read MoreIs a Lawyer Necessary from the Outset of Relationship Property
The Relationship Property Act 1976 doesn’t require you to have a lawyer during the initial...
Read MoreThe Hidden Pitfalls of the Family Court: Shifting Focus from
Family court is structured as an adversarial process where each parent is encouraged to present...
Read MoreUsing Nonviolent Communication for Constructive Dialogue Between Divorced Parents
Nonviolent Communication (NVC), created by psychologist Marshall Rosenberg, offers a valuable framework for turning potentially...
Read MoreSeeing Both Sides: Strategic Thinking for Family Separation Success
Understanding another perspective doesn’t mean agreement—it means empowering yourself with insight to make the best...
Read MoreWhy You Should Avoid Litigation Unless Absolutely Necessary
Litigation should be a last resort for separated parents because it often leads to increased...
Read MoreFinding Peace: A Mother’s Journey to Reconnect with Her Son
Two years. That’s how long Sarah, a mother caught in a drawn-out legal battle in...
Read MoreSignificant Disparity: Family Mediation Vs. Family Court
Why 80% of family-related disputes are opting for formal litigation rather than FDR mediation
Read MoreCarrying the Weight: Managing Grief and Stress After Separation
But just like any backpack, the weight begins to shift over time. As the days...
Read MoreWhen the Courtroom Becomes a Battlefield in Family Litigation –
One case in the Court of Appeal in New Zealand, Hirstich v The Family Court...
Read MoreFamily Separation Is Like A Temporary Storm That You Need
Family separation and dealing with the Family Court proceedings is like a temporary storm—intense, chaotic,...
Read MoreTen Years Old Protection Order Was Declined To Be Discharged,
In a recent High Court case, M v N [2016] NZHC 1524, Judge Matheson declined...
Read MoreGrief is a personal journey, and while we can’t control
Grief is an intensely personal journey, and while we can't control the pain it brings,...
Read MoreHigh Conflict: Is My Child Telling Me “What I Want
Children, being vulnerable and still developing, are not equipped to handle the stressors of adult...
Read MoreThe Family Court process is just one part of a
What you write in affidavits shapes your future co-parenting relationship with the other parent. Before...
Read MoreNew Proposed Bill to Prevent Misuse of Family Court Legal
The Victims of Family Violence (Strengthening Legal Protections) Legislation Bill introduces pivotal reforms aimed at...
Read MoreTrue Story to Reflect On – The Impact of Parental
In the case of Doe v Roe [2021] NZHC 3162, a story unfolds that serves...
Read MoreFamily Mediation: Beyond Resolving Disputes
Many parents initially resist mediation because they believe there is no prospect of resolution or...
Read MoreBridging the Access-to-Justice Gap Through Community-Led Services
Providing only court forms and applications to self-represented parties without guidance or help is seen...
Read MoreNavigating Family Separation: Essential Tips for Emotional Survival and Coping
Going through family separation or divorce can be very difficult, no matter the reason for...
Read MoreInvisible Wounds: Healing Post-Separation Begins With Acknowledging The Emotional Hurt
Acknowledging your feelings and emotions post-separation is a powerful tool, much like tending to a...
Read MoreOvercoming Learned Helplessness And Self-Sabotage During Family Separation And Family
Learned helplessness and self-sabotage are struggles that many people face, particularly during the challenging times...
Read MoreIssues to conisder when separated
Issues to consider during separation Going through a separation or divorce can be very difficult,...
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